After my last post about the movie, “My Kid Could Paint That”, I was forced to think about just what fascinated me about this movie. I think the most interesting part of the whole story was that a young child’s art work was recognized as beautiful. I know very little about modern art, but I have always been a big fan of children’s paintings. At the age of four, most children are not primarily concerned with what other people will think of their creations, which seems to make the finished work especially interesting and pure. The documentary features art critics praising Marla’s work and skeptics who say that she is just a typical preschooler. As I reflected on these comments, I wondered why the conclusion that this child was”normal” made her art any less fascinating.
What if the only unusual thing about Marla Olmstead was that she was given huge canvases and high quality paints and brushes and allowed to spend as much time as she wanted painting in her underwear, since that was what she preferred to wear? She would have still opened our eyes to a wonderful discovery. Is every child and artist, as Picasso said?
I mentioned that I also found the movie disturbing. It allows you a glimpse of what Marla’s parents are thinking, or at least what they say they are thinking, as her fame grows and as the authenticity of her artwork is called into question. They wrestle with the decisions that they have made to promote their daughter’s work and to put her in the spotlight. The say that they want Marla to live a normal life, but at the end of the documentary, she is back in art world, attending showings, meeting potential buyers, allowing strangers to fawn over her. It’s all just the kind of thing that grown-ups would do, from the perspective of Antoine de Saint-Exupery:
“Grown-ups like numbers. When you tell them about a new friend, they never ask questions about what really matters. They never ask;” What does his voice sound like?” “What games does he like best?” “Does he collect butterflies?” They ask “How old is he?” “How many brothers does he have?” “How much does he weigh?” “How much money does his father make?” Only then do they think they know him. If you tell a grown-up, “I saw a beautiful red brick house , with geraniums at the windows and doves on the roof…,” they won’t be able to imagine such a house. You have to tell them, “I saw a house worth a hundred thousand francs.” Then they exclaim, “What a pretty house!” (The Little Prince, p. 10)
It is so like a grown-up to see a child say or do something and respond by trying to produce some numbers. ”How many years ahead of her peers is she?” “ What percentage of other children his age could do what he just did?” “What reading level is that book, anyway?” And, at our very worst, “How much money could their work be worth?” Grown-ups are like developers walking through a breezy pine forest, envisioning parking lots, Wal-Marts, and Applebees, if they could just get others to see the potential that lies in front of them. Wasted potential is such a shame.
I like your take on the movie. Your response is the correct one, to see it from the potential damage/benefit to the child. When I saw the movie I think I was most disturbed by the mother’s (to me) deliberate manipulation of the media. Her “Gosh, I’m just a mom, I don’t know nothing about the Tee-vee…” stance seemed to fall apart as her daughter’s work was called into question and she seemed a very shrewd manipulator of the media indeed. Of course all this is assuming the filmmakers made an honest effort to tell what happened and not impose a narrative of their own on the footage, something I’m dubious about. I don’t like when in documentaries we get the obligatory shot of the filmmaker himself–usually while driving a car (driving can be so boring and the camera so close)–speaking about his or her misgivings about the subject or doubts about the film project. I wonder if your readers had that same sort impulse to dislike the mother I did, and I wonder if they were able to check-it by film’s end.
Your final image of the adult as developer is powerful and thought provoking. Kudos on a great post.
By: Dan Libman on July 25, 2008
at 3:26 pm
Yesterday my kids met a new friend across the street. The spent several hours together sitting on the steps talking, looking at Pokemon cards, etc. I wish I could have caught their conversation on film – I couldn’t hear any of it from where I was. And whenever I got close, they stopped their natural interactions. (I took a couple of bags to the trash, and a couple armloads of brush to the recycling at the corner).
When the kids came in, I was full of curiosity. But none of the questions I could ask (how old is he, what is his name, what did you guys talk about, what is he like?) could get at the heart of what I wanted. I wanted to KNOW that kid the way they knew him after their delightful morning.
I couldn’t figure out how to ask the right questions. Your post came to mind as I struggled to ask questions that would invite conversation.
And they didn’t seem inclined to talk about him much, other than “he’s great” “he likes Pokemon” “he likes baseball.” His name was not even an issue. Only my oldest seemed to care about that. The other 2 just had a new neighborhood friend – who cares what his name is, mom!
Maybe kids forget how to tell us what we really want to know, because when they are little and they tell us about EVERYTHING we teach them to stop?
By: egana on July 28, 2008
at 11:47 am